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		<title>By: tom</title>
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		<dc:creator>tom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Aug 2010 22:22:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mathias - first, apologies for the severely delayed response. Even in Phase 2, I find life sometimes still &#039;gets in the way,&#039; as it were.

Great questions. Let me take a shot at answers in the Busting Loose context.

First, it&#039;s all illusion, nothing but illusion, but, as Einstein said, &quot;Reality is merely an illusion, although a very persistent one.&quot; The key to The Process is to FEEL the feelings you are experiencing ... as fully as you are capable or comfortable. THEN, notice that the power of those feelings is actually YOUR power that you are feeling, experiencing in your hologram. It&#039;s the power that Expanded Self presented and presents in Phase 1 to convince you are the exact opposite of Who You Really Are. And it works beautifully!

Now that you&#039;ve been &#039;contaminated&#039; by taking the Red Pill and questioning everything, you can know that this POWER (shame, guilt, unworthiness, love, ecstasy, fear, ... you get the idea) is really Expanded Self doing a 180 as you requested: it is now giving your these powerful feelings to show you how you fooled yourself, pushed all the right buttons, in Phase 1. NOW ES is showing you where your buttons and feelings are so you can use The Process, Tell The Truth and reclaim your power ... and move down the track further and further into the phase 2 &#039;rabbit hole.&#039;

Notice there is no sense of &#039;conquering&#039; anything. Since it&#039;s all illusion there is nothing to &#039;conquer,&#039; just stuff to recognize, feel and do The Process on. 

As to who/what creates, is creating, the illusion, Robert&#039;s model says it&#039;s all a holographic-like operation driven by Your Consciousness/Expanded Self via &#039;Patterns In The Field.&#039; Everything &#039;out here&#039; is the result of ES putting a particular pattern or detail in The Field, pumping it with unconceivable power (infinite power is, by definition, inconceivable ... even though we invented a word to describe it - cosmic joke there?) in order to have it pop out as YOU in YOUR HOLOGRAM having and reacting to THIS EXPERIENCE (in your case &#039;nudity anxiety&#039; - not a bad place to start ...)

Notice you don&#039;t even have to be actually nude in front of actual people to feel the anxiety/discomfort. Gee, that would mean that ... you are making it all up in  your illusory &#039;mind,&#039; no? And yet the discomfort is as real as anything - and you can do The Process on it right then and there and reclaim some power and move more into Phase 2 experience/living.

It&#039;s also useful to recall that &#039;others&#039; do one of three things for your in your hologram; that is to say, you have them do for you three things in your hologram. This is for &#039;others&#039; that you have a primary interaction with as opposed to &#039;just extras&#039; walking and sitting around to make your hologram appear and feel more &#039;real&#039; to you.

1.  they reflect something back to your that you think or feel about yourself - and then, as you said rather accurately, &quot;is really not an issue for anyone but me.&quot; but is being reflected back to me.

2.  they provide you data or information 

3,  they set something in motion for you

And it can be one, two or all three in any given encounter. It&#039;s tremendous fun when you begin saying and noticing that, &quot;And then I had them say/do ...&quot;

Way cool questions. Rock on!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mathias &#8211; first, apologies for the severely delayed response. Even in Phase 2, I find life sometimes still &#8216;gets in the way,&#8217; as it were.</p>
<p>Great questions. Let me take a shot at answers in the Busting Loose context.</p>
<p>First, it&#8217;s all illusion, nothing but illusion, but, as Einstein said, &#8220;Reality is merely an illusion, although a very persistent one.&#8221; The key to The Process is to FEEL the feelings you are experiencing &#8230; as fully as you are capable or comfortable. THEN, notice that the power of those feelings is actually YOUR power that you are feeling, experiencing in your hologram. It&#8217;s the power that Expanded Self presented and presents in Phase 1 to convince you are the exact opposite of Who You Really Are. And it works beautifully!</p>
<p>Now that you&#8217;ve been &#8216;contaminated&#8217; by taking the Red Pill and questioning everything, you can know that this POWER (shame, guilt, unworthiness, love, ecstasy, fear, &#8230; you get the idea) is really Expanded Self doing a 180 as you requested: it is now giving your these powerful feelings to show you how you fooled yourself, pushed all the right buttons, in Phase 1. NOW ES is showing you where your buttons and feelings are so you can use The Process, Tell The Truth and reclaim your power &#8230; and move down the track further and further into the phase 2 &#8216;rabbit hole.&#8217;</p>
<p>Notice there is no sense of &#8216;conquering&#8217; anything. Since it&#8217;s all illusion there is nothing to &#8216;conquer,&#8217; just stuff to recognize, feel and do The Process on. </p>
<p>As to who/what creates, is creating, the illusion, Robert&#8217;s model says it&#8217;s all a holographic-like operation driven by Your Consciousness/Expanded Self via &#8216;Patterns In The Field.&#8217; Everything &#8216;out here&#8217; is the result of ES putting a particular pattern or detail in The Field, pumping it with unconceivable power (infinite power is, by definition, inconceivable &#8230; even though we invented a word to describe it &#8211; cosmic joke there?) in order to have it pop out as YOU in YOUR HOLOGRAM having and reacting to THIS EXPERIENCE (in your case &#8216;nudity anxiety&#8217; &#8211; not a bad place to start &#8230;)</p>
<p>Notice you don&#8217;t even have to be actually nude in front of actual people to feel the anxiety/discomfort. Gee, that would mean that &#8230; you are making it all up in  your illusory &#8216;mind,&#8217; no? And yet the discomfort is as real as anything &#8211; and you can do The Process on it right then and there and reclaim some power and move more into Phase 2 experience/living.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s also useful to recall that &#8216;others&#8217; do one of three things for your in your hologram; that is to say, you have them do for you three things in your hologram. This is for &#8216;others&#8217; that you have a primary interaction with as opposed to &#8216;just extras&#8217; walking and sitting around to make your hologram appear and feel more &#8216;real&#8217; to you.</p>
<p>1.  they reflect something back to your that you think or feel about yourself &#8211; and then, as you said rather accurately, &#8220;is really not an issue for anyone but me.&#8221; but is being reflected back to me.</p>
<p>2.  they provide you data or information </p>
<p>3,  they set something in motion for you</p>
<p>And it can be one, two or all three in any given encounter. It&#8217;s tremendous fun when you begin saying and noticing that, &#8220;And then I had them say/do &#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>Way cool questions. Rock on!</p>
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		<title>By: Mathias</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mathias</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Apr 2010 12:31:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>First of all, interesting posts on Robert Scheinfelds &quot;Busting Loose&quot; work. I am rather new to his work and was first introduced to this philosophy via Roberts own book &quot;Busting Loose from The Money Game&quot; and was stunned. First I didn&#039;t get it, but after having reread many chapters several times and now your blog etc the philosophy and the grandeur of it starts to hit home in a pleasant way.

Now, I just want to bounce something off with you regarding &quot;The Process&quot;. As I have understood it the idea is to recognise a problem area in your life that makes life hard or moderately annoying/discomfort giving and then look at it and think &quot;this is an illusion&quot; and then go ahead and conquer it? Is that correct or have I missed a subtlety in this process that I should be aware of?

Let me give an example to put this in context: I am deathly, well not deathly but at least not that keen on showing myself nude and I really would fancy doing it. But whenever I decide to strip and walk around naked at home (inside the house:)) I feel embarrassed, because there are others living in the same home with me and the feeling of being ridiculed and sorely embarrassed crossed my mind. 

This might seem a silly example, but being nude is not natural for me and I would like it to be. It seems to be a nice way of leading a home life to be honest.

So here it comes. According to my apprehension of &quot;The Process&quot; I should look at the situation of me being nude in front of these people in my home as being an &quot;illusion&quot; and that they exist because I create them? They are there because I believe they are there, basicly, and that me walking around nude and it potentially leading to me being ridiculed is really me ridiculing myself because I create these people who ridicule me? A confusing description perhaps, but I hope you understand where I am getting at?

So If I see those people as not being real, there would not be anyone to be ridiculed by or being embarrassed in front of?

If I have understood the philosophy of &quot;The Process&quot; then I can say only one thing: I am blessed beyond words. Then I understand the words &quot;live a life without limits&quot;.

Just the plain idea that &quot;if those people do not really exist, then all of the problems I might think I have is really not an issue for anyone but me. And the reason it was a problem for me in the first place was because I thought others would use that something against me in some way. But if they are all a creation of my mind, an illusion, then I really have no excuse to see it as a problem any longer&quot;.

Your blog is now saved as one of my favourite blogs. Looking forward to your response. This concept keeps me up at night, but as we both know &quot;nights&quot; could really be &quot;daytime&quot; or &quot;afternoons&quot;:). I like this.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>First of all, interesting posts on Robert Scheinfelds &#8220;Busting Loose&#8221; work. I am rather new to his work and was first introduced to this philosophy via Roberts own book &#8220;Busting Loose from The Money Game&#8221; and was stunned. First I didn&#8217;t get it, but after having reread many chapters several times and now your blog etc the philosophy and the grandeur of it starts to hit home in a pleasant way.</p>
<p>Now, I just want to bounce something off with you regarding &#8220;The Process&#8221;. As I have understood it the idea is to recognise a problem area in your life that makes life hard or moderately annoying/discomfort giving and then look at it and think &#8220;this is an illusion&#8221; and then go ahead and conquer it? Is that correct or have I missed a subtlety in this process that I should be aware of?</p>
<p>Let me give an example to put this in context: I am deathly, well not deathly but at least not that keen on showing myself nude and I really would fancy doing it. But whenever I decide to strip and walk around naked at home (inside the house:)) I feel embarrassed, because there are others living in the same home with me and the feeling of being ridiculed and sorely embarrassed crossed my mind. </p>
<p>This might seem a silly example, but being nude is not natural for me and I would like it to be. It seems to be a nice way of leading a home life to be honest.</p>
<p>So here it comes. According to my apprehension of &#8220;The Process&#8221; I should look at the situation of me being nude in front of these people in my home as being an &#8220;illusion&#8221; and that they exist because I create them? They are there because I believe they are there, basicly, and that me walking around nude and it potentially leading to me being ridiculed is really me ridiculing myself because I create these people who ridicule me? A confusing description perhaps, but I hope you understand where I am getting at?</p>
<p>So If I see those people as not being real, there would not be anyone to be ridiculed by or being embarrassed in front of?</p>
<p>If I have understood the philosophy of &#8220;The Process&#8221; then I can say only one thing: I am blessed beyond words. Then I understand the words &#8220;live a life without limits&#8221;.</p>
<p>Just the plain idea that &#8220;if those people do not really exist, then all of the problems I might think I have is really not an issue for anyone but me. And the reason it was a problem for me in the first place was because I thought others would use that something against me in some way. But if they are all a creation of my mind, an illusion, then I really have no excuse to see it as a problem any longer&#8221;.</p>
<p>Your blog is now saved as one of my favourite blogs. Looking forward to your response. This concept keeps me up at night, but as we both know &#8220;nights&#8221; could really be &#8220;daytime&#8221; or &#8220;afternoons&#8221;:). I like this.</p>
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